恭敬不如從命

Simplified: 恭敬不如从命

gōngjìngbùrúcóngmìng ㄍㄨㄥ ㄐㄧㄥˋ ㄅㄨˋ ㄖㄨˊ ㄘㄨㄥˊ ㄇㄧㄥˋ

    • deference is no substitute for obedience (idiom)
    • (said to accept sb's request, invitation etc)

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Saying俗语俗語

Proverb谚语諺語 · In everyday use

Literally
being respectful is not as good as obeying orders
Meaning
A polite thing to say when accepting an offer or invitation after first declining, as the host insists. Roughly "it would be rude to refuse".

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