服软不服硬

Traditional (Taiwan): 服軟不服硬

fúruǎnbùfúyìng ㄈㄨˊ ㄖㄨㄢˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄈㄨˊ ㄧㄥˋ

    • to yield to persuasion but not to force
    • to respond to gentle handling but resist pressure

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Saying俗语俗語

Idiom惯用语 · In everyday use

Literally
yield to softness, not to hardness
Meaning
A person who responds to gentle persuasion but resists force or pressure. Usually written 吃软不吃硬.

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