看人下菜碟儿

Traditional (Taiwan): 看人下菜碟兒

kànrénxiàcàidiér ㄎㄢˋ ㄖㄣˊ ㄒㄧㄚˋ ㄘㄞˋ ㄉㄧㄝˊㄦ

    • to treat people differently according to what one can gain from them
    • to fawn on the powerful and snub others

Saying俗语俗語

Idiom惯用语 · In everyday use

Literally
look at the person, then serve the dish
Meaning
To treat people differently depending on what you can gain from them, such as being fawning to the powerful and cold to others. Critical.

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