吃了人家的嘴软，拿了人家的手短吃了人家的嘴軟，拿了人家的手短吃了人家的嘴軟，拿了人家的手短

having eaten others' food your mouth is soft; having taken others' things your hand is short

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Proverb谚语諺語 · In everyday use

Meaning: If you accept favours or gifts, you find it hard to refuse or criticise the giver. Cautionary, somewhat cynical. Similar to "Beggars can't be choosers" in part; closer to being beholden.

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Simplified: 吃了人家的嘴软，拿了人家的手短
Traditional (Taiwan): 吃了人家的嘴軟，拿了人家的手短
Pinyin: chīle rénjiā de zuǐruǎn, nále rénjiā de shǒu duǎn
Bopomofo: ㄔ ˙ㄌㄜㄖㄣˊ ㄐㄧㄚ ˙ㄉㄜㄗㄨㄟˇ ㄖㄨㄢˇ，ㄋㄚˊ ˙ㄌㄜㄖㄣˊ ㄐㄧㄚ ˙ㄉㄜㄕㄡˇ ㄉㄨㄢˇ

Written with HSK 6 vocabulary, at CEFR level B2.

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